Hi, Fam!

#44 The 4-Step Script That Gets Your Husband to Listen

Hi, Fam!

Show Notes

You finally found the words to explain what you need. Perhaps you even had to take a bit of time to work up the courage to say it...

You thought you did it all right, and somehow the conversation still went sideways.

You're trying to connect, and he's defending himself. And suddenly you're talking about his feelings instead of what you were trying to say in the first place. 😅

How did that even happen?

I've SO been there too.

You shouldn't have to stop having needs or swallow your feelings just to keep the peace.

You CAN ask for what you want and make it easier for your husband to actually hear you.

That's exactly what we're getting into in Part 2 of the free Speak Husband Challenge. ❤️ If you did not catch Part 1 make sure to go back and listen to it first. Get your accompanying workbook - https://hifam.com/speakhusbandworkbook

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