98. Perfectionism Disguised as Wellness: Rethinking What Health Really Means | with Nidhi Sunil
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Model Nidhi Sunil — Vogue India Model of the Year and the first Indian global ambassador for L'Oréal Paris — joins Kate for a very candid conversation about how her work affected her mental and physical health. After more than a decade of image-building, red-eye flights to Paris and back, and relentless external pressure, Nidhi hit a full-body burnout in 2022. In this episode, she opens up about depletion, self-worth, complex trauma, colorism in the fashion industry, and the slow, honest work of healing — beginning with a simple bowl of kitchari. Together, Kate and Nidhi explore how Ayurveda "decentralizes" the pressure to optimize, why ojas (our life-force reserve) matters more than output, and what it looks like to put the "juice" first. A grounding, deeply relatable listen for anyone in a season of transition, exhaustion, or reevaluation. In this episode:
The real lifestyle behind international modeling — and its hidden cost on the body How burnout actually arrives: insomnia, panic, depletion, a lost menstrual cycle Food as the first tool: why kitchari was the portal back to sleep Self-worth, shame, and outsourcing our value to productivity Colorism in the fashion industry and the "colonial hangover" "Perfectionism disguised as wellness" and why optimization can harm Ojas, plumpness, and the Ayurvedic permission to simply be human Learning to lead with your "yes" and your "no" from a place of abundance
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