
Show Notes
This week I'm joined by my friend Jen Bianchi, a dentist with nearly 20 years' experience, to talk about something we hardly ever hear in the perimenopause and menopause conversation: our teeth. Jen explains why the mouth is the gateway to the rest of the body, what bleeding gums can tell us, and why getting the basics right beats any miracle product. We also dig into dry mouth, the sneaky sugars hiding in squash and herbal teas, burning mouth syndrome, and what we do (and don't) know about HRT and gum health. It's an honest chat about science, stress and why we so often put ourselves last on the list. Key Takeaways
Healthy gums don't bleed. Gum health is linked to cardiovascular disease, diabetes and stress, so bleeding is worth acting on. Do the basics well. Brush twice a day for two minutes with a pea-sized amount of fluoride toothpaste. Spit, but don't rinse, and clean between your teeth. How often you eat matters as much as what. Keep sugar to mealtimes, choose savoury snacks, and stick to water or milk in between. Watch out for squash, herbal and fruit teas, and extra strong mints. The research on perimenopause, menopause and teeth is still limited. Busy lives, medication and dry mouth all play a part. If you have burning mouth or recurrent ulcers, ask your GP about iron, B12 and folate. Dentists aren't there to judge you. If life has got in the way of your check-ups, just book in. When it all feels like too much, start with one thing.
Episode Highlights
02:00: Why dentists call the mouth the gateway to the body, and what gums can reveal about heart health, diabetes and stress. 04:00: The basics: how long to brush for, why you shouldn't rinse after brushing, and where mouthwash fits in. 09:00: What the research does (and doesn't) say about teeth in perimenopause and menopause, and how overload affects our dental health. 12:00: Why constant snacking keeps your mouth under acid attack, and what to eat and drink instead. 20:00: Burning mouth syndrome in menopausal women, and the link to iron, B12 and folate. 40:00: HRT and gum health: what we know, what we don't, and why it's so hard to untangle. 50:00: Jen's three things to take away, including why "back to basics" is the message.
About the Guest Dr Jen Bianchi isa a dental surgeon, partner and practice principal at The South Street Dental Practice in Elgin, Moray. Having spent her career workign in general dental practice in Moray, Jen has a particular interest in holistic, family-focused dentistry- looking beyond just teeth and gums to consider the health, wellbeing and individual circumstances of the person behind the smile.
Website: https://southstreetdental.co.uk/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/southstreetdental
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