Sex Stories: How To Do You

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Sex Stories: How To Do You

Show Notes

CBT, play parties, handmade kink toys, and erotic ritual—Hawthorn returns to share how pain, pleasure, and their pagan practice intertwine to create meaningful connection in kinky community spaces.

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⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 Returning to play parties and asking for what you want 03:15 Discovering CBT scenes, women who top, and erotic pain as connection 05:16 Cock and ball torture basics: tools, consent, limits, and intensity 08:07 Subspace, dirty talk, and surrendering control during heavy impact 12:19 Sensation play, anticipation, and loving pain 14:03 Play furniture, suspension swings, and exhibitionist party scenes 18:02 Being watched, strap-ons, prostate orgasms, and party sex fantasies 22:52 Praise, aftercare, and power dynamics 25:31 Exploring top space: inflicting pain, sadistic pleasure, and feedback 29:18 Community play, enthusiasm, and safe kinky connection 31:01 Handmade kink toys and snake symbolism 35:09 Paganism, sex as sacred, consent, and spiritual practice 38:39 Sex magic, sigils, orgasmic intention, and changing one’s life 43:05 Ritual sex with partners and spreading pleasure into the world 48:08 Playing with new partners, vulnerability, and letting more love in 53:47 Exploring foot play, sensation, and unexpected desires 59:50 Foot worship, submission, and long-term erotic evolution 01:04:55 Living separately together: space, autonomy, and intimacy 01:09:12 Sensory parties, reading erotica, and non-genital erotic intensity 01:15:20 Swingers spaces, queer comfort, and navigating different scenes 01:19:39 Group fantasies, gangbang dreams, and playful connection 01:22:32 What the world needs to be sexier, safer, and more loving 01:25:24 Spreading ripples of love through care, magic, and community

Hawthorn’s original episode from December 2021 | Dominant Women Are Sexy

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