Permission To Thrive with Suzi Lula

82. Put Your Oxygen Mask On First: A Conversation About Women and Martyrdom

Permission To Thrive with Suzi Lula

Show Notes

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Let's redefine the role of women and mothers by prioritizing our well-being this holiday season.

Join me in 'Transforming Martyrdom' as we explore why self-sacrifice harms us mentally and how we can break free from these expectations.

Giving ourselves permission to thrive is the greatest gift we can offer.

🌀 What does it mean to be a martyr?

🌀 How are women and mothers culturally conditioned to be martyrs?

🌀 Why is martyrdom toxic for our mental health?

🌀 How can we ditch martyrdom and still be good people/partners/parents?

This is the motherhood advice no one wants to tell you:

🌀 Our culturally indoctrinated desire to put others before ourselves is making women and mothers sick.

🌀 It's making us depressed.

🌀 It's burning us out.

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