Stronger Bolder Wiser

The Menopause Weight Gain Nobody Explains, and the Hormone Truth Behind All of It with Karen Martell

Stronger Bolder Wiser

Show Notes

Your body isn't failing you. It's running out of the hormones it needs, and no doctor told you that was coming.

I sit down with Karen Martel, certified hormone specialist and transformational nutrition coach, to pull back the curtain on what perimenopause and menopause are actually doing to women's bodies and minds. Karen shares her own journey through hormonal collapse in her early 30s, early menopause at 42, and how she rebuilt her health from the inside out. Together, we walk through the full hormonal picture, from the first drop in progesterone to the metabolic storm of estrogen loss, and what women can do about it.

Timestamps How to Spot Hormonal Imbalance Before It Gets Worse (00:000 Karen's Journey From Burnout to Hormone Specialist (04:00) Why Doctors Miss the Root Cause of Women's Symptoms (09:00) Why Progesterone Is the First Hormone to Disappear (13:00) Heavy Periods, Anxiety, and the Signs of Perimenopause (18:00) How Estrogen Loss Triggers the Metabolic Storm (24:00) How Hormones Wreck Mood, Brain, and Relationships (36:00) Who Should Start Bioidentical HRT and When (42:00) Estrogen, Breast Cancer, and the Myths That Harm Women (50:00) Strength Training and Protein for Menopausal Weight Loss (56:00) Why GLP-1s Work So Well for Menopausal Women (01:03:00) How to Thrive in Midlife and Where to Find Karen (01:06:00)

Karen Martel is a certified hormone specialist and transformational nutrition coach based in North America. After experiencing hormonal collapse in her early 30s and again at 42 when she went into early menopause, Karen returned to study and became one of the leading voices in women's hormone health and midlife wellness. She now runs a clinical hormone program helping women across the US and Canada decode their symptoms, replace what they have lost, and reclaim their energy, confidence, and quality of life.

Website: https://karenmartel.com/ Midlife Solutions Shop: https://midlifesolutions.org/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@karenmartelhormones Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karenmartelhormones/

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Sarah Rusbatch is an accredited Health and Wellbeing Coach and one of Australia's leading experts on grey area drinking. Her podcast,  Stronger, Bolder, Wiser, is the go-to space for women who are questioning their relationship with alcohol, navigating life alcohol-free, or simply curious about what life could look like on the other side of the bottle.

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Struggling to know what to do when stress, boredom or big emotions hit? Download my free guide "100 Things to Do Instead of Drinking", a toolkit for sitting with those feelings instead of reaching for a glass of wine. Get your free guide → https://sarahrusbatch.com/free-guide-100-things-to-do-instead-of-drinking

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If you want to join a space where women feel safe to be seen, ask the questions they don't always say out loud and connect with others going through the same, join my free Facebook group, Women's Wellbeing Collective here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/342319476897067

And if changing your relationship with alcohol is something you want to explore further, you can find my book Beyond Booze on Audible, Spotify, Kindle and Amazon. Click the link here: https://sarahrusbatch.com/beyond-booze

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