19 Does your child ignore you when you talk? The real reason this happens and what to do about it!
Sensory Solutions for Parents - Parenting Tips, Behavior, Regulation, Meltdowns, TantrumsShow Notes
In this episode of Sensory Solutions for Parents, we’re exploring one of the most common concerns parents have: ”Why won’t my child listen?” You might be surprised to learn that what looks like ignoring or defiance is often related to how a child’s developing brain and nervous system process information—not simply a choice to misbehave. As a pediatric occupational therapist, I’ll explain how sensory processing, attention, emotional regulation, and your child’s environment all affect their ability to hear, process, and follow directions. You’ll walk away with practical, evidence-based strategies you can start using today to reduce power struggles, improve communication, and help your child respond with greater success.
💛 In this episode, you’ll learn: • Why listening is much more than simply hearing your voice. • How sensory processing and nervous system regulation affect your child’s ability to follow directions. • Why children often seem to ”ignore” parents when they’re overwhelmed, tired, or deeply focused on play. • The difference between defiance and a brain that needs more time to process. • Five simple, sensory-friendly strategies to help your child listen without repeating yourself over and over.
DISCLAIMER This podcast, Sensory Solutions for Parents, is intended for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, occupational therapy, or other professional advice. The host is a licensed occupational therapist; however, the information shared in this podcast is general in nature and may not apply to your specific child or situation. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapist-client relationship between you and Alison Foura, PhD, OTR/L. Any strategies, ideas, or suggestions shared are offered as general support for parents and caregivers and should be used at your own discretion, with consideration for your child’s individual needs and your family’s values. Always seek the guidance of your child’s pediatrician, occupational therapist, or other qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding your child’s development, behavior, or health. This podcast may also include personal experiences and, at times, faith-based perspectives. These are shared as part of Alison’s personal and professional lens and are not intended to replace individualized care or professional guidance.
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