Show Notes
Silence has a cost. Perry Power knows that better than most. A survivor of child sexual abuse, Perry spent years keeping his story hidden — pushing through depression and suicidal thoughts — while the weight of the secret quietly took everything it could. When he finally broke the silence, it didn't just set him free. It became his life's mission. Today, Perry is a TEDx speaker, author of Breaking the Silence, filmmaker, and founder of The Survivor Movement — a global community helping survivors of all kinds of trauma turn their pain into purpose. He has appeared in the Sunday Times, on Sky, CBS, NBC, and Fox News, and has helped thousands of survivors find the courage to tell their own stories. His father's silence took his life at 48. Perry has decided that it ends with him. The Film: It Ends With Me, Fundraiser site: https://www.gofundme.com/f/itendswithmefilm Perry's Website: https://iamperrypower.com The Writing Community: https://www.skool.com/powerfulbooks/about
WARNING: This episode contains conversations about childhood sexual abuse.
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