Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Being a Dom (w/ Sapphira Cristál)

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Show Notes

Drag queen Sapphira Cristál (Drag Race S16) joins Nicole for an educational chat about being a dom, impact play, and the 12-hour prep cycle for bottoming - including how to douche properly and the secret medication trick for staying clean through the night. Sapphira tells the story of how she met her partner through an Instagram gym thirst trap originally meant for another drag queen, and the time she gave a blowjob so good that a man wrote a song about it.

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