Show Notes
In this episode, PDA Society's Rachel speaks with Paula Webb, the parent of an adult PDAer, about what happens when PDA goes unrecognised through childhood and beyond. Together they explore how the lack of understanding and support in earlier years can have lasting effects on both the individual and their family.
Through honest and heartfelt conversation, Paula shares their family's journey – from the confusion and distress of unmet needs to the eventual realisation that PDA lay at the heart of it all. They discuss how late understanding reshaped their relationship with their now-adult child, and the process of rebuilding communication, trust and mutual understanding. This episode shines a compassionate light on the challenges faced by PDA adults whose needs were missed in childhood, and the emotional toll carried by both parents and children. It's a powerful reminder that it's never too late to learn, understand and reconnect.
Key Themes:
* Growing up without recognition or diagnosis * The long term impact of unmet needs * The parent child relationship through adulthood * Finding understanding and healing later in life * Building trust after years of misunderstanding
Deep Diver Subscriber Episode
For those who would like to go further, Part 2 – an exclusive "Deep Diver" subscriber episode – is available through our Training Hub. You can access it here: https://training.pdasociety.org.uk/pda-podcasts/
Disclaimer
The views and opinions expressed by guest speakers in this podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the PDA Society. While we aim to provide balanced and inclusive discussions, individual experiences and perspectives may vary. The PDA Society is committed to using language and terminology that reflects the preferences of PDA and autistic people, but sometimes our guests may use language and terminology which differs. Appearance on our podcast is not an endorsement of an individual, and not all of our guests will align with our position on the issues discussed.
Further sources of support and information
PDA Society Training Hub: https://training.pdasociety.org.uk/pda-podcasts/
PDA Society Website: https://www.pdasociety.org.uk/
PDA Society Training: https://www.pdasociety.org.uk/support-and-training/training/
PDA Society Support Service: https://www.pdasociety.org.uk/support-and-training/support/
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