In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently

When kids say “I’m stupid”: How to rebuild confidence and self-esteem

In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently

Show Notes

As a parent, it’s heartbreaking to hear your child say “I’m stupid.”

Whether it comes after a tough day at school, a frustrating homework session, or a comment that hit the wrong nerve, that feeling can really stick. Dr. Kristin Carothers joins us to unpack where this kind of negative self-talk comes from. What’s happening beneath the surface? And how can adults respond in ways that build confidence — not pressure?

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