Embracing Modesty & Purity Without the Baggage (Sex, Porn, Dopamine, Shame, and Honest Talk About Purity Culture, with Guest Dannah Gresh)
The Complicated Heart Podcast with Sarah MaeShow Notes
Near the end of high school, and as a new Christian, I came across a book called, And The Bride Wore White that was an eye-opener for me when it came to sex and purity. I had never been told or known that there were people who waited to have sex until marriage, and when I learned this, I gravitated to it, because for the first time I felt a deep value in sexuality, that there was something sacred with sex and intimacy and that God wanted something better for me, for my body and my heart and my soul and my mind. I was so grateful for that book because it changed my paradigm, my belief that everyone was having sex outside of marriage. It wasn’t true, that everyone was having sex, and there were good and beautiful reasons why they weren’t. I read more books by Dannah Gresh, the author of And The Bride Wore White, and I later found out that we lived in the same town and had mutual friends and acquaintances. Over the years, Dannah and I have run into each other a few times, but we’ve never really talked. Until now. I recently had the privilege to interview Dannah for this show, and it was so good and such a delight and I can’t wait for you to listen in. Okay, so who is Dannah Gresh? Aside from someone who has mentored me from afar, she a best-selling author, speaker, and founder of True Girl (formerly Secret Keeper Girl), America’s most popular Christian tween event. She has authored over 20 books that have been translated into 12 languages, including And the Bride Wore White, and Lies Girls Believe. Considered one of the leading experts on the subjects of sexual theology and parenting tweens and teens, her resources have equipped over one million moms and leaders as they seek to raise their girls in confidence and Truth. Over 400,000 have attended her live events. Dannah is a frequent co-host for Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth’s Revive Our Hearts as well as a popular guest on programs like Focus on the Family and Family Life. She has appeared on CNN, Fox News, and the TEDx stage. She lives on a hobby farm in State College, Pennsylvania with her husband, Bob, and over 20 animals. LINKS: DannahGresh.com MyTrueGirl.com Dannah's newest book: Lies Girls Believe ... Questions or comments? Email [email protected]. Loved this episode? Head over to iTunes to subscribe, rate, and leave a review. Reviews are how people know if they should listen or not, so please if you like the show, take a minute and give it a review. Thank you so much!
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