Show Notes
Friendships in your twenties can feel complicated. People grow, paths change, and it can be hard to know which connections to nurture, redefine, or release. In this episode, I share the friendship analogy that helped me stop expecting every friendship to hold the same depth: the onion layers. We talk about the value of curiosity, giving people room to change, investing in your core community, and becoming your own best friend along the way. Your friendships do not all need to look the same to be meaningful. 🩵 p.s. thanks for being patient with this episode! I couldn’t get it up yesterday because of some technical issues. xo, Bianca ========================
In this episode:0:00 introduction + newsletter 1:57 why friendships are so hard in your twenties 5:11 the onion layers friendship analogy 7:18 the art of genuine curiosity 10:28 becoming your own best friend 12:06 the art of improv in friendship 14:22 how to build new friends in adulthood 18:38 final thoughts + get the seasonal workbook! ========================how to support me (so I can keep posting!)…1. Buy my a coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/thetwentiesdetox 2. Get my seasonal workbook: A 4-part workbook you can use every year to plan your goals in alignment with nature’s seasons. https://www.thetwentiesdetox.com/align-with-the-seasons-guide========================more resources…The Twenties Detox Newsletter (free!!) https://www.thetwentiesdetox.com/newsletter Next episode: Why you might lose friends on your personal growth journey https://open.spotify.com/episode/1r1phem8eLmL4hfRF3WHYT?si=9a22f40a833c4604
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