THE GROWTH MINDSET PODCAST

You don't need more self-love, you need higher standards

THE GROWTH MINDSET PODCAST

Show Notes

In this episode I chat about how “self-love” has slowly been redefined into something that often lowers our standards instead of raising them. If you feel stuck in a version of yourself that feels lost and you don't like what you see in the mirror, this episode is for you. It time to clock where you use "I'm listening to my body" as an excuse to avoid the work and where "you're perfect as you are" is actually the most limiting thing you can tell yourself . I dive into the difference between self-love and self-respect, and why real self-respect means following through with what you said you would do, even when it's uncomfortable. I am not here to bubble wrap the truth, I am here to hold you to a higher standard so you actually see change. Love you!!!

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