Too Into You

Myth Busting

Too Into You

Show Notes

On this episode, the Too Into You team - Mary and Madeline - break down myths and misconceptions about abuse.

We’ll be answering questions like:

- Does abuse go both ways?

- ⁠Why didn’t they just leave?

- ⁠Is abuse just physical?

Remember, if you are worried about your own or a friend’s relationship:

• Call Women’s Aid 24Hr National Freephone Helpline on 1800 341 900.

• Chat for support at toointoyou.ie

Both are completely free and confidential.

Take the Relationship Quiz to see if yours is healthy or not: https://www.toointoyou.ie/relationships/quiz/

Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:13 Introduction

02:08 Myth: Abuse only happens to older, married people

04:07 Myth: “They were just drunk”

06:25 Myth: Abuse is just physical

07:04 Myth: Online abuse is not serious

10:14 Myth: Physical abuse is the most serious form of abuse

11:38 Myth: “They’re just protective and care about me”

14:14 Myth: Women make up sexual abuse

13:36 Myth: Abuse can go both ways

20:19 Myth: If it’s that bad you can just leave

27:09 Myth: No one will believe you

28:37 Myth: You’ll never find love again

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