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Easy Networking Tips for the Networking Haters

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Summary

Networking can often feel daunting, but there are effective strategies to ease the process and make it more enjoyable. One approach is to seek out smaller groups or "islands" of people rather than overwhelming yourself with large crowds. By identifying groups with an odd number of participants, individuals can find someone who may be looking for a conversation partner, making it easier to engage.

Reviving dormant connections is another powerful networking tactic. Reaching out to old contacts can lead to fresh ideas and rekindle trust built over time. Instead of focusing solely on what you want from the interaction, prioritize reconnecting and nurturing these relationships.

Additionally, turning networking into a game can help alleviate anxiety. By adopting an extroverted persona or setting fun challenges for yourself, the pressure of initiating conversations can diminish. Lastly, rather than stressing over small talk, focusing on shared interests can facilitate more meaningful discussions, making networking a less intimidating experience overall.

Show Notes

Easy Networking Tips for the Networking HatersUploaded 03-01-234 Jan 2023---Networking doesn’t have to be scary or hard.00:00 Networking can feel frightening and embarrassing. But it doesn't have to.00:30 Tip 1: Look for islands.00:58 Tip 2: Networking doesn't have to involve meeting new people.01:35 Tip 3: Turn networking into a game.02:02 Tip 4: Don't stress yourself with preparing for small talk.Based on the HBR/Ascend article by Amantha Imber: https://hbr.org/2021/10/easy-networking-tips-for-the-networking-hatersThis video is co-produced with @Emeritus. You can find more co-productions from HBR and Emeritus on the Emeritus app: https://emrt.us/HarvardBusinessReviewFollow HBR:https://hbr.org/https://www.linkedin.com/company/harvard-business-review/https://www.facebook.com/HBR/https://twitter.com/HarvardBizhttps://www.instagram.com/harvard_business_reviewSign up for Newsletters: https://hbr.org/email-newsletters#HarvardBusinessReview #Explainer #Networking Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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