
Summary
A recent weekend outing to the Central Hawke's Bay Spring Fling provided a refreshing break for one individual, who celebrated a friend's birthday with a unique experience rather than traditional gifts. The day included a house tour of a stunning homestead, a two-hour bush walk, and a delightful three-course meal, featuring hot ham, which sparked thoughts about holiday menus. The gathering, primarily attended by older individuals, offered a chance to enjoy nature and engage in lighthearted conversation, despite the attendee's limited knowledge of gardening.
Looking ahead, the individual prepares for a busy week filled with meetings and mentoring sessions. They emphasize the importance of starting personal development work before the new year, encouraging others to reflect on their past experiences and learn from them. With a son embarking on his first solo trip to Spain for a taekwondo competition, there is a mix of excitement and nostalgia as preparations unfold.
The week also includes plans for a property event aimed at attracting a large audience of women, with discussions around brand activations to enhance the experience. The individual expresses enthusiasm for upcoming keynotes and workshops, highlighting a packed schedule that balances professional commitments with personal connections, including a reunion with old friends. As a nod to nostalgia, they celebrate the significance of September 21st, referencing the classic Earth, Wind & Fire song, and consider incorporating music into future gatherings.
Show Notes
Release yourself from past versions of you, and turn your wounds into wisdom. This week, I'm sharing a timeline journaling exercise for exactly that, mapping your life in chunks and finding the advantage hiding in even the hard bits. Plus a glorious Spring Fling, why I've moved to giving experiences over gifts, and yes, it's the 21st of September.
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