Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser

#280 Stop Having Fear-Based Sex (with Caitlin V)

Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser

Show Notes

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Caitlin V, a sex and relationship coach, YouTuber, HBO Max host, and author of "Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger," outlines her decade of work primarily with men experiencing performance anxiety. She emphasizes shifting from performance and comparison to an experiential focus on pleasure, communication, and treating sexual challenges as data. We also discuss fear, homophobia, and manosphere grifts.

Key Points: 05:47 Beyond Premature Ejaculation 13:25 Performance vs Pleasure 19:24 Fear and Masculinity 23:23 Manosphere Grifts 37:44 Fear of Pleasure 42:17 Performance vs Receiving 48:54 Erotic Libraries and Porn

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