PDA Society Podcast

"How I realised I was PDA" - An interview with H Arlo-Harris Video

PDA Society Podcast

Show Notes

In this episode, PDA Society CEO Ed speaks with H Arlo-Harris – teacher, trainer and PDA adult – about what life is really like when you're PDA. From discovering PDA through a word cloud on our website, to navigating internal demands, sensory overwhelm and social communication, H takes us beyond labels and into lived experience.

With warmth, humour and clarity, H shares how PDA impacts their daily life, relationships and work, and how they've shaped a life that allows them to thrive. Whether you're PDA yourself, love someone who is, or work with PDAers, this conversation offers practical insight and compassionate understanding.

Deeper Dive Subscriber Episode For those who'd like to go further, Part 2, an exclusive "Deeper Dive" subscriber episode is available through our Training Hub. You can access it here: https://training.pdasociety.org.uk/pda-podcasts/

Disclaimer The views and opinions expressed by guest speakers in this podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the PDA Society. While we aim to provide balanced and inclusive discussions, individual experiences and perspectives may vary. The PDA Society is committed to using language and terminology that reflects the preferences of PDA/autistic people, but sometimes our guests may use language and terminology which differs. Appearance on our podcast is not an endorsement of an individual, and not all of our guests will align with our position on the issues discussed.

Further sources of support and information:

PDA Society training hub: https://training.pdasociety.org.uk/pda-podcasts/

PDA Society Website: https://www.pdasociety.org.uk/

PDA Society Training: https://www.pdasociety.org.uk/support-and-training/training/

PDA Society Support Service: https://www.pdasociety.org.uk/support-and-training/support/

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