Play This At My Funeral

Finding Your Voice and Your Life’s Purpose with guest Erin Snow, Creator of The Unmuted Room (Ep 35)

Play This At My Funeral

Show Notes

💐 Episode Summary You’re not ready for this episode. We’re shedding light on some traumatic early events that led to a career helping people in a BIG way with Erin Snow. We’re graced by the presence of this woman, powerhouse speaker and professional listener, and the creator of The Unmuted Room founded on a simple belief: Most people do not need advice. They need space. In creating her playlist for the show, she says she uncovered a way to leave her voice behind. We’re talking about songs you definitely don’t know from Simon & Garfunkel, Kesha, Andra Day, Ingrid Michaelson, Billy Joel and a huge array of musical theatre selections from shows including Les Miserables. Come for the music but stay for the real talk that will upend everything you think about life. 💿 Songs Mentioned “Scarborough Fair/ Canticle” by Simon and Garfunkel

“Amazing Grace” by

“I Dreamed A Dream” sung by Patti Lupone from the Les Miserables musical soundtrack

“With Or Without You” by U2

“Take Me Home Country Road” by John Denver

“What A Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong

“Hallelujah” by k.d. Lang

“My Favorite Thing” by Julie Andrews from the Sound of Music soundtrack

“Rise Up” by Andra Day

“Praying” by Kesha

“Raising Hell” by Kesha

“Undrunk” by Fletcher

“Auld Lang Syne (Sex and the City Arrangement)” by Banna de Minstrels

“I Love You B****” by Lizzo

“In Case You Don’t Live Forever” by Ben Platt

“Going Home” by Mary Fahl, Mark O’Connor

“Lady Like” by Ingrid Andress

“And So It Goes" by Billy Joel

“Anti Hero” by Taylor Swift

“Dream Girls” by Beyonce

You can listen to Erin’s playlist here: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3efgHGHYa65WAphQq21CcH?si=pEAO65LFRoqyV-NHKfhiqA&nd=1&dlsi=c80e8fd4ad4c4c0f 🎙 About the Guest Erin Snow is a Professional Listener and founder of The Unmuted Room, a first-of-its-kind confidential listening space for anyone carrying more than they can say out loud. She creates private, judgment-free sessions for people who need to speak the truths they can't share with friends, family, or coworkers — whether it's the messy, complicated stories, the quiet aching questions, or the thoughts they've been softening in every other room of their lives. Before founding The Unmuted Room, Erin spent 17 years as a trauma-informed legal advocate for survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking, becoming the first paralegal in New Hampshire allowed to represent clients directly in family court. That experience — combined with her own — taught her a profound truth: being truly heard is not a luxury. It is a necessity for anyone carrying more than they can say out loud. Erin's long-term vision is to make listening spaces as common as gyms and as understood as any other form of wellness. She is building something quietly transformative: a world where people are finally, truly heard. 🌹 About Play This At My Funeral Play This At My Funeral is a deeply fun, slightly macabre, always heartwarming podcast about the songs that shape our lives — including the ones we’d play at our funerals. Each episode, Dinah invites a guest to curate their hypothetical send-off playlist and share the stories behind the music. Think Desert Island Discs meets Films To Be Buried With — with more vibes and fewer survival scenarios. Created and hosted by Dinah Susan Alobeid. Edited and co-produced by Jesse Mendelson. 💜 Stay Connected Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts and share with someone building their own “funeral playlist.” Watch the full video episodes on YouTube. 🎙 About the Host Dinah Susan Alobeid is a writer, dancer, and VP of Communications & Content. Her writing appears in Porter House Review, Five on the Fifth, Reverie Literary Magazine, Spectrum Magazine, and more. She lives in New Jersey with her partner and their rambunctious kid. I hearby declare that I do not own the rights to any music or lyrics played during the recording of this podcast. All rights to the music and audio belong to their respective owner(s).

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