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Orlando R. Kelm is a retired professor from the University of Texas at Austin. He served in the Department of Spanish and Portuguese and the McCombs School of Business for over 37 years, teaching courses in Portuguese and Spanish language and linguistics. His research and publications focused on the cultural aspects of cross-cultural communication and the creative use of technology in language learning.
Orlando was born in Calgary, Alberta, raised in Taylorsville, Utah, and educated at Brigham Young University and the University of California at Berkeley. He served in the São Paulo Norte Brazil mission, and his three favorite hobbies are studying foreign languages, acoustic guitar, and astrophotography and nature photography. Orlando recently published the book It’s a Patriarchal Blessing!.
Links It's a Patriarchal Blessing Email Before a Patriarchal Blessing (Microsoft Word format) Email Before a Patriarchal Blessing (PDF format) Transcript available with the video in the Zion Lab community Watch the video and share your thoughts in the Zion Lab community Highlights Orlando discusses his experiences as a patriarch and the significance of patriarchal blessings. He emphasizes the importance of viewing these blessings as affirmations of identity and divine potential rather than as mere checklists or warnings.
00:02:28 - Orlando's Calling as a Patriarch 00:03:52 - Challenges of Starting as a Patriarch 00:04:48 - Training and Preparation for Patriarchs 00:05:41 - The Pressure of Giving a Blessing 00:06:29 - Communicating First-Time Blessings 00:07:06 - Orlando's Role as the Only Patriarch 00:07:55 - Impact on Gospel Study and Preparation 00:08:34 - Revelation and Inspiration in Preparation 00:09:40 - The Importance of Compassion 00:10:37 - Note-Taking for Blessings 00:12:00 - Reviewing and Editing Blessings 00:13:27 - The Nature of Patriarchal Blessings 00:14:35 - Preparing Candidates for Blessings 00:17:30 - Helping Candidates Feel Comfortable 00:19:06 - The Role of Patriarchs in the Church 00:20:10 - The Blessing Aspect of Patriarchal Blessings 00:21:09 - Avoiding a Checklist Mentality 00:22:32 - The Role of Personal Agency 00:23:36 - Orlando's List of Recommended Talks 00:24:45 - Reducing Anxiety for Candidates 00:26:07 - The Experience of Giving Blessings 00:27:30 - The Importance of Seeing Potential 00:28:59 - Understanding Lineage in Blessings 00:30:33 - The Significance of Covenant and Gathering 00:31:47 - Contributions of Different Tribes 00:33:44 - The Role of Personal Revelation 00:35:58 - Flexibility in Interpreting Blessings 00:37:09 - The Lifelong Relevance of Blessings Key Insights
The Nature of Patriarchal Blessings: These blessings should be viewed fundamentally as a positive source of love and divine identity. Orlando emphasizes that they are not patriarchal warnings, admonitions, or "chewing outs," but rather tools to help individuals understand their divine worth. Preparation as a Patriarch: The process involves intense, ongoing spiritual preparation. Orlando explains that he often feels like a "faucet that cannot be turned off" in the days leading up to a blessing, as he studies scriptures and topics prompted by the Holy Ghost to prepare his mind to receive impressions. Mortal Delivery of Revelation: Patriarchs receive inspiration, but they must articulate it using their own mortal capacity, vocabulary, and understanding. Consequently, a patriarchal blessing is a collaboration between the Spirit and the patriarch's mortal expression. The Fallacy of the "Checklist": Recipients should avoid viewing their blessings as a list of required events (e.g., marriage, missions, children) to be checked off. Instead, they should see the blessing as a resource to be applied to all of life's decisions, challenges, and experiences. Understanding Lineage: The declaration of lineage is not a DNA test but an invitation to participate in the Abrahamic covenant and the gathering of Israel. Each tribe’s unique description provid
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