Show Notes
For nearly two decades Jeffrey Marsh has been a representative and advocate for LGBTQ people of all stripes. Whether on Vine, Tik Tok or Instagram, Jeffrey has built success on simple videos helping straight and LGBTQ people attain a lasting sense of peace and self-compassion.
Jeffrey is the first non-binary person to sign a book deal with any “Big 5” publisher worldwide, and they have since written two books, “How to Be You: Stop Trying to Be Someone Else and Start Living Your Life” and “Take Your Own Advice: Learn to Trust Your Inner Voice and Start Helping Yourself.”
Jay and Jeffrey explore the anxiety in wanting to do right by other people, the different valences of Jeffrey’s advice to the LGBTQ community and much more.
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Episode Chapters
0:00 Intro
1:12 The physical feeling of anxiety
4:50 How should parents think about Jeffrey’s estrangement from their family
7:30 How has LGBTQ activism changed during Jeffrey’s career in activism
8:45 The hateful practice of demonizing other people
16:12 Internal vs external activism
19:29 The power in living a joyful life
23:31 Self-help when your trouble is caused by other people
24:59 Outro and goodbye
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