Show Notes
In this episode, we talk with evidential medium Barbara Banner, who shares her personal journey into mediumship and how she began delivering detailed, verifiable messages from people in spirit.
We explore what mediumship actually feels like from the inside, how messages come through, and whether this ability is something only a few people have — or something anyone can learn to access. Barbara explains how grief affects the connection to the other side, why signs from loved ones often appear in everyday life, and what spirits supposedly experience after death.
The conversation also dives into deeper questions about reincarnation, life reviews, spirit guides, and whether those on the other side can influence what happens here on Earth. Toward the end, Barbara even attempts a live reading during the podcast, showing how unexpected and symbolic these messages can be.
Topics include:
How Barbara discovered her abilities
What happens during a medium reading
Signs from loved ones after death
Life after death & reincarnation
Spirit guides and intuition
Can anyone learn mediumship?
A live reading during the episode
Timestamps 0:00 Intro 1:22 Barbara’s story – how mediumship started 2:46 Crisis work, grief support, and early experiences 5:02 Paranormal events that changed everything 6:41 First readings and learning mediumship 8:35 Mediumship and grief – why timing matters 11:08 What messages from spirits are usually about 14:02 Validations, signs, and surprising details 18:33 How spirits communicate with a medium 20:52 Can anyone learn intuition and connection? 24:30 Teaching clients to connect themselves 26:35 When messages don’t make sense at first 27:59 Who shows up in a reading? 30:52 Burnout and self-care as a medium 32:44 Negative spirits, protection, and safety 35:00 Life after death and the life review 38:57 Reincarnation and why souls come back 42:06 Can spirits influence life on Earth? 45:06 Live reading during the podcast 52:55 When messages make sense later 54:46 Where to find Barbara Banner online 55:38 Outro
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