Show Notes
In this episode, we talk about the mess that infidelity creates in a family when it comes to co-parenting. Our guest is Tracy Schorn, the self-named “Chump Lady,” who shares her experience co-parenting, and she gives some insights to how to best navigate dealing with a cheater. How do you maintain your relationship with your kids? Do you tell your kids and how? How will your kids and you recover from this?
Main Points
Our insights from last week's grow work: Taking time for yourself
How to deal with a cheater
Being the show-up parent
Coffee Date Info
Coffee Date Guest: Tracy Schorn
Tracy Schorn is the award-winning blogger and cartoonist known as “Chump Lady.” She’s the author of “Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life – The Chump Lady’s Survival Guide” (Hachette, 2016), which has been an Amazon #1 seller in divorce. Her work has helped hundreds of thousands of people leave abusive relationships.
Tracy’s Link: https://www.chumplady.com/
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