The Shift

EP 11 | Why You're Not Unbothered Yet

The Shift

Show Notes

In this episode, we're breaking down why it's so hard to feel unbothered by someone you've already outgrown.

This isn't about weak boundaries, lack of healing, or "caring too much."

It's about where your body learned to feel okay and why it doesn't update as quickly as your mind does.

If you've ever had a falling out with someone but still find yourself thinking about them, reacting to them, or feeling subtly activated by them.....

This will explain why and more importantly what actually needs to shift!

👉 If this hits, go deeper inside THE LIBERATION PORTAL where I teach how to actually move it.

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