The Language of Play - Kids that Listen, Speech Therapy, Language Development, Early Intervention

288 She Screamed, Kicked and was Called a “Little Tyrant.”Now Shraddha Oza Explains What She Needed

The Language of Play - Kids that Listen, Speech Therapy, Language Development, Early Intervention

Show Notes

Hey Friends~ You’ve told your child what comes next, but they’re still not moving. Then the tears start, and a simple morning routine becomes a struggle - again. What if your child needs more time and support to do what you’re asking? Today’s guest was once that child, having those big meltdowns. Getting ready for school could become so overwhelming that her parents carried her to the car, and the school director helped her transition into the classroom. Now, she she shares her story to help families understand what may be happening beneath the tears and resistance. She explains how predictable routines, simpler language, and time to process can help children move from overwhelmed to ready for the next step. From slowing down the morning rush to adding a silly wiggle between tasks, Shraddha shares practical ways to make everyday routines feel more manageable and connected. In this episode, you’ll hear:

Why moving from one activity to another can be difficult for a young child. How predictability helps children feel secure. Why fewer words can help when emotions are high. How staying calm and allowing time for feelings can support your child. Simple ways to use short scripts, familiar cues, and play during routines. Why understanding an instruction and being able to follow through are different skills.

If you’re tired of repeating yourself or wondering why everyday tasks feel so hard, this conversation offers a fresh way to understand what your child may need. Always cheering you on! Dinalynn CONTACT the Host, Dinalynn: [email protected] Have a QUESTION or COMMENT? Leave a voice message! https://castfeedback.com/play WEBSITE: https://www.thelanguageofplay.com/ WAITLIST: https://www.thelanguageofplay.com/waitlist ABOUT THE GUEST: Shraddha is a speech-language pathologist with 16 years of clinical experience spanning the US, UK, and India. A two-time ASHA ACE Award recipient, she currently leads in a supervisory role at a Los Angeles-based telehealth practice. She’s also the founder of Wonder Words, a platform dedicated to play-based language and executive function development for young children and their families. Shraddha is passionate about translating clinical expertise into practical, everyday tools parents can use, helping families see play not just as fun, but as the foundation for how kids learn to think, communicate, and problem-solve. CONTACT THE GUEST: [email protected] IG: wonderwords503

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