PROFILE: Gary Ridgway, Green River Killer Part 2: Mary Ellen O'Toole
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Gary Ridgway lied to detectives for hours at a time and never once bragged. So how did FBI profiler Mary Ellen O'Toole get the Green River Killer to confess to 49 murders? ⚠️ Trigger warning: This episode includes graphic discussions of murder, sexual assault, necrophilia, child sexual abuse and violence against a child. Listener discretion is advised. Part 2 of two on Gary Leon Ridgway, the Green River Killer, who was convicted of 49 murders around Seattle and has admitted to more than 70. This is the half where the psychology meets the investigation, and where the victims get their names back. Therapists Shannon and Cathy take apart how an unremarkable man built a double life, and how one FBI profiler used his need to look cooperative to take it apart. In this episode: - Why being thin, quiet and unthreatening was the weapon, and how he used photographs of his young son to win trust - Fallon Gannon's description in Wicked Horror: "a boring little man of meager intelligence" - Gavin de Becker, The Gift of Fear, and how women are taught to give the benefit of the doubt - Ann Rule, who knew Ted Bundy, calling him a mousy little man - The method, the strangulation, and the necrophilia, including returning to bodies days later - Not paying them: humiliation as the actual point, and the revenge fantasy aimed at his mother - The dump sites he returned to, and why they calmed him - July 15, 1982: Wendy Lee Coffield, 16, found in the Green River - Gisele Lovvorn, 17. Debra Lynn Bonner, 23. Marcia Faye Chapman, 31. Cynthia Hinds, 17. Opal Mills, 16 - Roberta "Bobby Jo" Hayes, his 47th known victim, missing in 1987 and not found until 1991 - Detective David Reichert, first on the scene - The Strip, and how he found the largest victim pool in the country - His father, who berated prostitutes in front of him and then left Gary in the car while he used them - His mother, still bathing him into his teenage years, and still buying his clothes after he married - The first wife's affair, and shame, humiliation and inadequacy as the trigger - The diathesis stress model: predisposition, and the environment that switches it on - The serial killer who did not want attention, kept no public trophies and stayed emotionally flat - Mary Ellen O'Toole, the Bureau's expert in psychopathy, and why a woman lowered his defenses - The strategy: making a confession the path of least resistance for a man who needed to look cooperative - "I have been lying and have manipulated you. I killed them all." - The plea: remains in exchange for his life, and Judge Richard Jones handing down 48 consecutive life sentences in December 2003 Clinical terms: sexual sadism, necrophilia, paired association, psychopathy, dehumanization, moral disengagement, diathesis stress model, infantilization, depersonalization, affective flattening, fetish and control, risk assessment. This is a two-part series: Part 1, PROFILE: Gary Ridgway, The Green River Killer Part 1, is the early years and the psychology, through to the DNA match. Part 2 is the victims, the method, the investigation and the confession. Two licensed therapists, one forensic psychologist, one clinical LMFT, take apart the minds behind the crimes. 🎧 LISTEN TO THE FULL PODCAST APPLE PODCASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/terror-talk-true-crime-serial-killers-and-horror/id1435529687 SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/07JEm5Qm7cohukkEUOYt7P PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/cw/terrortalk 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terrortalkpodcast/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/newterrortalkpodcast 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dark.psychology.girls?_r=18_t=ZT-99iWlxm05in 🎶 Music by Mannequin Uprising
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