Man Eyes, Emoji Fails and School Volunteering - Ep. 433
Big Fat Positive: Pregnancy and Parenting (BFP)Show Notes
In this week's "Out of Context" segment, Shanna and Laura trade screenshots of text messages that need some explaining, including an emoji mix-up from an unexpected sender and a running joke about husbands who can’t see what’s right in front of them. Also, Laura finds out what it takes to get approved as a school volunteer these days, and a lottery win at school takes a real bite out of homework stress at Shanna’s house. They also share this week’s BFPs and BFNs.
Kids' ages: Shanna's kids are 7.5 and 10.5 years old, and Laura's kids are 7.5 and 5.5 years old.
Topics discussed in this episode: • What it takes to become a school volunteer now • Live scan fingerprinting and background checks for parents • Completing mandated reporter training • Background checks for youth sports volunteers • After-school enrichment lotteries • Getting homework done before you get home • Working with a teacher to get assignments early • When an emoji goes wrong • How different generations read emojis • Why your husband can’t find the thing that’s right there • Reading aloud in your kid’s classroom • Taking a solo hike to feel like yourself again • Hiking spots in Los Angeles
Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode: • The Legend of Rock, Paper, Scissors by Drew Daywalt, illustrated by Adam Rex • The Day the Crayons Quit by Drew Daywalt • What Makes a Baby by Cory Silverberg • Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak • Bodies Are Cool by Tyler Feder • Buffalo Fluffalo by Bess Kalb • Strange Planet: The Sneaking, Hiding, Vibrating Creature by Nathan W. Pyle • O’Melveny Park • California Mandated Reporter Training
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