S13 E10: My HR Trauma Has Officially Reached the Buffy the Vampire Slayer Metaphor Stage

I started this solo episode planning to talk about the evolution of HR, and ended up using one of my fav shows, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, to explain why this job can be emotionally unhinged, and suspiciously dependent on one exhausted woman saving everybody.

We’re getting into the mental-health toll of HR, the workplace chaos currently entering the group chat, and why being the chosen one is actually a pretty terrible operating model if you think about it.

Come for the interesting HR data, and stay for the Buffy lore… filled with spoilers, FYI!

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