Show Notes
What if you're not actually “unphotogenic”? After more than 15 years photographing women professionally, I've heard some version of “I'm terrible in photos” more times than I can count. And I genuinely don't believe that looking good on camera is simply something some women are born knowing how to do and others aren't. In this episode, I'm talking about why being “photogenic” is much more learnable than we tend to think — and what is actually happening behind the scenes when a professional photographer makes someone look and feel good on camera. We're getting into: Why “just act natural” is possibly the world's least useful direction
What a photographer is actually thinking about behind the camera
Why movement can make such a huge difference
How camera position and light affect how you look
Why you shouldn't judge yourself from one photo or one take
The relationship between skill, practice and confidence on camera
Some simple things you can start doing immediately to create photos and videos of yourself that you actually like
Because the next time you film yourself and immediately think, “God, I just don't look good on camera,” I don't want you to automatically make that mean something about YOU. There are so many learnable skills between putting a camera in front of yourself and getting a piece of footage you like. And “my face is the problem” probably isn't the most useful place to start. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE It Girl Content If you want to learn the visual skills I've developed over 15+ years behind a camera — including light, angles, posing, composition, movement and framing — and how to actually use them to create content for your business, you can find out more about It Girl Content here: https://www.oliviabossert.com/it-girl-content
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