Show Notes
In this episode, I talk with Kate Higgins, a therapist-turned-spiritual life coach for unconventional women 40+, who brings 26 years of clinical experience, a decade of burlesque performing, and a hard-won midlife reinvention of her own. It's a rich, expansive conversation that will make you feel seen ~ and maybe a little more ready to claim what's yours.
Kate speaks candidly about the four archetypal phases every woman moves through ~ Maiden, Mother, Empress, and Crone ~ and why understanding where you are right now has a way of shifting everything. She shares her powerful ritual, Craft Your Crown, a hands-on rite of passage designed to help women step fully into who they're becoming.
We also get real about the Empress era ~ what it actually looks and feels like to set a boundary without apologizing or justifying. And we talk about what retirement can look like when you're long on creativity and community, even if you're short on savings.
Kate's reminder that healing doesn't have to be so serious stayed with me. Joy is not a reward for doing the hard work ~ it is the work.
Give this episode a listen ~ you'll walk away feeling more grounded, more crowned, and maybe a little more ready to cross the threshold. 👑
In This Episode We Cover:
The four archetypal phases of a woman's life What the Empress era really looks and feels like The Craft Your Crown ritual and why it works Setting boundaries without apologizing or justifying Alternative retirement models built on creativity and community Why healing gets to be joyful, silly, and fun
Resources & Links Mentioned:
Kate's Website: yourmagicalmidlife.com Instagram: @yourmagicalmidlife Podcast: Your Magical Midlife LinkedIn: yourmagicalmidlife.com
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