The It Girl Mindset

(171) why high achievers struggle to manifest and how to fix it with Alica Preetz

The It Girl Mindset

Show Notes

In today’s episode, I’m joined by Alica Preetz, a mindset and manifestation coach. We talk about what manifestation really looks like when you’ve spent years performing, achieving, and chasing goals for validation instead of alignment, and how coming back to your authentic self can completely shift what (and how) you manifest. In this episode, we chat about: How to actually find your authentic self and manifest from that place Why high achievers often struggle with manifestation Joy as a frequency and why it’s essential for detachment How to let go and trust the universe without giving up control Simple ways to release limiting beliefs Why authenticity is one of the most overlooked manifestation tools If you’re a high achiever who’s done “all the right things” but still feels disconnected from what you’re manifesting, this episode will help you reconnect to yourself and shift how you approach your goals. 🗓️⁠⁠⁠Free 6 Week Soft Girl Discipline Reset Notion dashboard ⁠⁠⁠ 📩⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join my weekly newsletter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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