Why She Stayed

Ep. 56: Love Bombing, Illusion of Stability, & Devaluation | Lindsay Abernathy

Why She Stayed

Show Notes

Today I am joined by Lindsay Abernathy host of Bitch Is A Bad Word podcast as she shares her personal story of surviving domestic abuse. We discuss topics of love bombing, future faking, how control escalates over time financially, emotionally, physically, and much more. Please see links below to connect with Lindsay or to check out her podcast:

Instagram: @bitchisabadwordpod Tiktok: @bitchisabadword Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bitch-is-a-bad-word-a-domestic-abuse-survivors-guide/id1780948251 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BitchIsABadWord

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