Show Notes
Sometimes we really mess up a conversation. Even on with solidly good intentions, can be heard by our children in the opposite way. This happened to me. It was used against me in court. But mostly, it made my daughter feel unsafe, and that is the most tragic part of it all.
And the shame around this event, has been hard to reconcile.
So, here is the story, and here is how I would approach it differently, and here is how I reconcile the shame.
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Dr. Nima Rahmany has been the lynch pin in my learning process.
As I began to understand my relationship dynamic with my father (Part 1 of this video), I was clearly shown how that dynamic played a role in my relationship with my daughters.
I just completed a 3 day journey -- doing guided journey work on my relationship with my father.
Even with the tools, the self-love, the shadow work, the parts work, etc... the fact remains that I am not in contact with my kids. It is simply hard.