South of Normal

#6: Who Is The Most ADHD? Mother Daughter Gameshow

South of Normal

Show Notes

Think your ADHD is chaotic? Try putting a mom and a teenager in a head-to-head ADHD showdown. In this game show style episode I pull my daughter Harley into a rapid-fire challenge to find out who is more ADHD. We compare losing phones, forgetting why we walked into rooms, impulse spending, hyperfocus quirks, and more. Between the laughs we talk about why ADHD looks so different in moms and teens, how inattentive and hyperactive types show up, how masking works in girls who overperform at school, and why executive dysfunction can hide behind a put-together exterior. If you’ve ever wondered whether your “quirks” are actually ADHD traits, this episode helps you spot yourself, understand your wiring, and feel a lot less alone.

Chapters (00:00) Introductions (01:38) Losing Personal Items (04:21) Clumsy ADHD (05:26) Too Many Tabs and “I’ll Do It Later” (08:55) Canceled Plans and Homebody Energy (14:32) Planners, Organization, and OCD Quirks (15:53) Big Emotional Reactions (18:15) Forgetting Where You Park (20:14) So Who Is More ADHD, Really?

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