Medical Gaslighting, Women’s Health & ADHD: Why So Many of Us Are Dismissed

What happens when you’re both a doctor… and the patient who isn’t being listened to? In this episode of ADHD Women’s Wellbeing, I’m joined by Dr Liz Murray, a doctor, activist, artist, and founder of Mortal + Strong. After 15 years navigating chronic illness, including lupus, endometriosis, and miscarriage, Liz shares what it’s like to experience the healthcare system from both sides. This conversation is about what often gets missed, female health symptoms that are normalised, the moments of dismissal that stay with you, and why for many neurodivergent women, why navigating healthcare can feel overwhelming, invalidating, and exhausting. In this episode, we explore:

Liz's journey of living with lupus, endometriosis, and miscarriage

Liz's experience of navigating the healthcare system as both doctor and patient

The impact of normalising heavy and painful periods on delayed endometriosis and fibroids diagnoses

The gaps in menstrual health education and what doctors aren’t taught to look for

The reality of medical gatekeeping and the “micro-traumas” of feeling dismissed

Why GPs are under pressure to know everything, and how that impacts patient care

The challenge for women with ADHD may experience in communicating symptoms in short appointments

How ADHD can make women more sensitive to hormonal changes

Practical advice for appointments to communicate more effectively

The importance of self-advocacy in medical settings

Why a holistic approach to women’s health matters (including diet, emotional wellbeing and lifestyle)

How we can better support the next generation to advocate for their health

This episode is both validating and practical, offering insight, language, and tools to help you feel more confident advocating for your health. Timestamps:

00:01 - Introduction to ADHD Women's Wellbeing

07:41 - Navigating the Challenges of Endometriosis

14:11 - Understanding Women's Health: The Overlap of Hormones and Neurodiversity

23:21 - Navigating Hormonal Health: The Patient's Perspective

37:47 - Addressing the Rift in Doctor-Patient Relationships

40:03 - Understanding Endometriosis and Women's Health

49:17 - Managing Health Holistically: The Interconnection of Conditions

Support and information on topics raised in today's episode: The Miscarriage Association Website The Miscarriage Association helpline and support services Endometriosis UK Support Network This week’s episode is sponsored by Understood.org, the leading nonprofit dedicated to empowering the millions of people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. Their podcast, AHA Aha! Shared candid stories about ADHD realisations, including the unexpected, emotional and even funny ways ADHD symptoms can surface! The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Live Event Recording is here! My first-ever ADHD Women's Wellbeing Live event sold out, and now the full experience is available to you wherever you are, whenever it feels right. Alongside three neuro-affirming experts, we spent four hours exploring the questions that matter most to late-diagnosed women. Get lifetime access here! Inside the ADHD Women's Wellbeing Live Recording, you'll find:

Kate Moryoussef on post-diagnosis growth and her gentle framework for what comes next

Dr Hannah Cullen on the neuroscience of ADHD and why your brain works the way it does

Hannah Miller on reconnecting with purpose through a neurodivergent lens

Adele Wimsett myth-busting on hormones, HRT, progesterone and perimenopause

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