Show Notes
In this episode, Alana unpacks how modern conveniences - especially smartphones, food delivery apps, instant access, and constant stimulation - could be making emotional overeating more likely to show up in your daily life. She explores how boredom has been removed from daily life, how the gap between wanting something and getting it has closed and why that missing friction matters so much when it comes to food. This episode is for the woman trying to lose weight sustainably who keeps blaming herself for “automatic” overeating, when the deeper issue may be that her nervous system has been trained to expect fast relief from every uncomfortable feeling. _____ For Newbies to The Sober Eating Movement Looking to Get Started Invisible Weight Detox An introduction to the Sober Eating Movement - a clear step-by-step process to help your body and mind work together, rebuild self-trust, and lose weight without tracking, shakes, or endless rules. → Enroll here
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What’s in your cart? The impact of online food delivery apps on depression and eating behavior in young adults https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12623399/
Convenience as a dimension of food environments: A systematic scoping review of its definition and measurement https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38176442/
Convenience as a dimension of food environments - ScienceDirect version https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0195666323026600 Boredom proneness, interoception, and emotional eating https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35843373/
Chapters 00:15 How Modern Convenience Triggers Emotional Eating 04:06 Why Boredom Is Not the Problem 07:29 The Link Between Boredom and Emotional Overeating 09:49 Why We Lost the Ability to Wait 11:45 Food Delivery Apps and Instant Relief 15:41 Convenience Is Not Neutral 18:48 How Fast Relief Trains the Nervous System 20:20 Why Distress Tolerance Matters 25:42 Why We Lost the Skill of Staying 28:15 Emotional Eating Is Not Just About Cravings 29:30 How to Rebuild 30:15 Practicing Discomfort Without Reaching for Food 31:50 Freedom From the Automatic Eating Loop
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