Mentally Strong Mums

✨Why Heartbreak Hurts So Bad: The Science Behind Love, Loss & Healing

Mentally Strong Mums

Show Notes

In this raw and powerful episode of Mentally Strong Mums, Elena explores what really happens to your mind and body when a relationship ends—especially when it wasn't your choice.

From hormone crashes (dopamine, oxytocin, cortisol) to immune system suppression and even Broken Heart Syndrome, we unpack the neuroscience, psychology, and biology of heartbreak.

You’ll learn:

Why heartbreak triggers the same brain regions as physical pain

How our mammalian bonding system works (and why detaching is so hard)

The gender differences in processing love and grief

Why heartbreak mimics addiction withdrawal

What to do when you're spiraling after loss

How to begin healing from an evidence-based, empowering perspective

If you're navigating a breakup, separation, or feeling grief from lost connection, this episode is your compassionate science-based guide.

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Listener note: This episode includes discussion of emotional trauma and biological symptoms of heartbreak. Please take care when listening.

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