The SelfWork Podcast

507 SelfWork: How to Effectively Talk To A Perfectionist

The SelfWork Podcast

Show Notes

The subject for today is how to talk with a perfectionist about your concern for them. Or if you’re the perfectionist, how to allow someone into your world enough for you to hear that concern. I'll offer five definite approaches that work and you'll learn about the feedback loop that makes perfectionism addictive.

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