Show Notes
In this episode, Alana sits down with Evan Cudworth, who calls himself the world's first party coach, for an unscripted conversation about parties, food, alcohol, and what it actually takes to enjoy yourself in a room full of people. Alana tells a story from her mid-twenties she hasn't told on the show before: going to every event she was supposed to go to, then standing in the corner with her arms folded the entire night, eye-rolling, thinking this sucks, everyone sucks. Evan tells the story of a beach party at a low point in his life, and the stranger who put a hand on his shoulder and said one sentence that redirected everything after it. Most women walk into a party believing the food and the drinks hold all the power. It's there, so I have to have it. Alana takes that sentence apart directly. Evan makes the case that the room itself is the arena where confidence, insecurity, connection, and escape all get practiced, and that what you're really there for was never the thing on the table. They also get into the part almost nobody names: what it costs to stop being the person who doesn't have fun, and why that identity is harder to put down than the food is. This episode is for the woman who is composed and capable all week and then can't get through a wedding, a dinner party, or a work event without negotiating with herself the whole time. Who says no to things she'd genuinely like to go to. Who has done years of work on food and still comes home from a party either depleted or convinced she blew it. Alana and Evan get into what actually changes your experience of the room, and it is not more willpower at the table. Guest Info: Evan Cudworth is the world's first party coach. He works with people on how to access fun, connection, and their own version of sobriety inside party spaces, and his mission is to reconnect humanity through party culture. He is based in Chicago, where he currently runs group programs. Website: partycoach.me Instagram: @evan_cudworth TikTok: @evan_cudworth _____ For Newbies to The Sober Eating Movement Looking to Get Started Invisible Weight Detox An introduction to the Sober Eating Movement - a clear step-by-step process to help your body and mind work together, rebuild self-trust, and lose weight without tracking, shakes, or endless rules. → Enroll here For a Deeper Transformation with The Sober Eating Method The Sober Eating Sequence™ The proven 3-phase method to stop food and dieting chaos, and release weight naturally through a new proven way of eating for weight loss and enjoyment - without dieting, restriction, or counting macros in as little as 90 days. This is where you finally trust your body and food choices, feel at ease in your skin, and stop circling back to food as the problem. → Enroll here _____ GET 1-1 SUPPORT FROM ALANA Elite VIP A 3-month private mentorship where years of struggle collapse into months of precision change. With custom meal development refined daily, private coaching intensives, and direct access to Alana, you'll stop negotiating with food and step into the woman whose body, confidence, and choices reflect her true power. → Apply here Concierge For the woman who refuses to settle, Concierge is the highest level of private mentorship. With unlimited access to Alana for coaching, every detail and nuance is addressed with luxury-level concierge private support tailored to your real day to day life, so you experience the deepest transformation possible and embody full freedom. {Luxury 3-day 1-1 weekend retreat with Alana included} → Apply here A program designed to support your Sober Eating Method Journey Coming Home to Your Body A self-paced course to help you feel safe, grounded, and at peace in a body that's still changing. Learn to build trust with your body now, not just after weight loss. → Enroll here Free Quiz: What's your hidden food and self belief pattern keeping you from lasting weight loss? Click here for the Free Quiz
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