Show Notes
Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg, Dr. Emily Upshur, and I talk about...
Why toddlers often sound rude or demanding without actually intending to be.
The developmental reason young children focus on getting their needs met rather than how their words affect others.
When to gently teach manners in the moment and when it's better to focus on connection instead.
How to model polite language without creating shame or turning every interaction into a correction.
Why understanding what's underneath your child's words can help you respond with more patience and less frustration.
How to tell the difference between a child who is simply being direct and one who is becoming overwhelmed or dysregulated.
Simple ways to encourage respectful communication through modeling, playfulness, and everyday practice.
Whether your toddler barks orders, interrupts constantly, or seems to demand things instead of asking politely, this episode will help you better understand what's driving those moments and show you how to teach respectful communication in a way that supports your child's development while strengthening your relationship.
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CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:
🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about how you can help your child learn to be patient when they wants my attention immediately
🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about how to effectively set limits, stay calm, and parent with confidence with Devon Kuntzman
🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about what to do when your child says "I hate you"
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