Stuff About Money They Didn't Teach You In School

Building Wealth When You Don’t Feel Wealthy

Stuff About Money They Didn't Teach You In School

Show Notes

What if the biggest thing keeping young adults from building wealth isn’t how much money they make, but believing wealth is even attainable? In the second episode of Money in Real Life, Xavier Angel, CFP®, and his daughter Caitlin tackle the question that naturally follows their first conversation: I know what I want my money to make possible, but how do I actually get there?

Xavier and Caitlin talk through why building wealth can feel so far out of reach when rent, groceries, debt, and everyday life consume so much of a paycheck. They explore how understanding where your money is going, creating some financial breathing room, and starting small can begin to turn something that feels impossible into a plan. Because building wealth doesn’t start when you finally have enough money. It starts with what you decide to do with the money you have today.

Episode Highlights:

Caitlin explains that her father's wealth-building presentation wasn't landing with young adults and that there were steps they needed first. (03:38)

Caitlin describes the wave of real questions from her age group after she posted a clip from their last episode, from Roth IRAs to buying a house. (06:20)

Xavier explains that building wealth isn't about already being wealthy, but about what you consistently do with the money you have. (10:10)

Xavier discusses"breathing room," the cash buffer that sits between you and your next unexpected expense. (13:10)

Xavier explains that building wealth starts with a decision to set money aside for your future self, not with hitting a dollar amount. (20:10)

Caitlin closes the episode with an action plan: define what wealth means to you, then map out where your money is actually going. (23:40)

Key Quotes:

"You build wealth because of what you consistently do with the money that you have, and that means that the starting point isn't how much money do I have, the starting point is actually what am I doing with the money that's coming through my hands?" - Xavier Angel, CFP®, ChFC, CLTC

"Number one, you have to define what wealth is for you. Now the next step is now that we know what wealth means for us, we need to know where our money is going, and we need to be able to map that out." - Caitlin Barnes

"You don't need to know everything about investing to start building wealth. You just need to understand the next step." - Xavier Angel, CFP®, ChFC, CLTC

Resources Mentioned:

Erik Garcia, CFP®, BFA

Xavier Angel, CFP®, ChFC, CLTC

Plan Wisely Wealth Advisors

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