
113 - The Story of Us: Helping Teenagers Navigate Gender, Sexuality, and the Gospel’s Goodness with Simon Swadling
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The Story of Us: Helping Teenagers Navigate Gender, Sexuality, and the Gospel’s Goodness
Al James interviews Simon Swadling about his new five-week youth video resource, The Story of Us, developed over three years from Moore College research on identity and theological anthropology, to help teenagers think deeply about what it means to be human and how the Bible’s story applies to gender and sexuality. Referencing a quote from Toby Knights, they discuss how teens increasingly evaluate Christianity through the lens of harm and oppression rather than truth, and argue the gospel is both true and good, offering a secure place to wrestle with discomfort compassionately. Swadling explains the resource’s structure (world story, sin’s impact, God’s better story centered on Jesus, then implications) and its five “tent poles”: made by God, made for relationships, made embodied, made to grow over time, and made for Christ. Links: Story of Us Resource https://thestoryofus.org.au, Living Faith https://livingfaith.online, Simon's article that we mention, "The Problem with Finding Your Identity in Christ" https://simonswadling.substack.com/p/the-problem-with-finding-your-identity. And the podcast episode based on the article Time Stamps: 02:00 Podcast Welcome 03:17 Why This Resource 06:19 Teen Pressures Today 09:34 Vibes And Worldviews 13:16 Truth And Discomfort 16:34 Beyond Right And Wrong 21:26 Why Gender And Sexuality 24:18 Five Week Framework 30:05 How Youth Groups Use It 32:55 Hopes For Youth Ministry 35:29 Where To Find It Connect with Youthworks Click through to discover more about the Youthworks Ministry Support Team and how Youthworks can help you have an effective youth and children's ministry in your local church, or check out our Facebook Page . You can connect with the broader Youthworks family by clicking here . You can partner in the ministry of Youthworks by donating here . We would love to hear from you! Send your thoughts, comments, and suggestions to [email protected]
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