Boy Talk

15. The Childhood I Never Really Had: Growing Up as a Young Carer

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Show Notes

By the age of 16, Danny Donnelly was balancing school with 50 hours of caring responsibilities each week. Now a nursing student, researcher and advocate for unpaid carers, Danny joins Shuab Gamote on Boy Talk to share his extraordinary journey from growing up as a young carer to campaigning for change. Together, they explore the hidden pressures facing young male carers, the importance of creativity and neurodiversity in education and why celebrating resilience should never replace providing proper support.

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