Show Notes
In this Q&A episode, I answer a listener’s question about moving from a hot, connected sex life during pregnancy to feeling completely disconnected from desire in postpartum.
I talk about why this shift is so common after birth, and how much your body, identity, relationship, and nervous system are moving through in this season. Before trying to “get the sexy vibe back,” we need to start with sensuality, self-connection, support, and honoring what your body has been through.
This episode is about finding your way back to lust gently, honestly, and in a way that actually fits the woman and mother you are now.
In this episode:
Why postpartum can feel so different sexually
Reconnecting with sensuality before sex
Honoring your body after birth
Asking for the intimacy you actually want
Rebuilding your erotic identity after becoming a mother
If you’re feeling disconnected from desire, this is your reminder that nothing is wrong with you. Your sexuality may simply be asking to return in a new way.
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96: Sex after birth: intimacy, pleasure, and pussy rehab →
47: How to Resuscitate Your Erotic Mind as a Mother - Interview with Lisa O. →
69: The ultimate desire hack: how to have more sex in your longterm relationship →
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