The Resurrection Room with Kelli Shaw

How to Rewire Your Subconscious Mind and Get Rid of Limiting Beliefs for Good

The Resurrection Room with Kelli Shaw

Show Notes

How to Rewire Your Subconscious Mind and Get Rid of Limiting Beliefs Here's something most people never stop to consider: your subconscious mind drives 95% of your decisions and your emotions. If you don't understand that you actually have two brains running your life — not one — this could be exactly why you keep ending up stuck in the same patterns, no matter how hard you try to think your way out. In this episode, Kelli breaks down the real difference between your conscious and subconscious mind — why one is slow and conceptual while the other is lightning-fast, automatic, and wired directly into your autonomic nervous system. You'll learn how limiting beliefs actually get installed through a process called automaticity, why some beliefs take longer to remove than others, and the one distinction that determines whether you ever actually change: the difference between being interested in releasing a belief and being committed to it. If you've done the personal growth work, read the books, and still feel the same patterns running underneath the surface, this episode gives you the missing piece. In this episode:— Why your subconscious mind controls 95% of your decisions and emotions — The real difference between your conscious brain and your subconscious brain — How your autonomic nervous system runs automatically, even while you sleep — What automaticity is, and how it explains why limiting beliefs feel impossible to "think" your way out of — Why some limiting beliefs take longer to remove than others — The critical difference between being interested and being committed — and which one you're actually living in — What it really takes to replace an old automatic pattern with a new one Connect with Kelli:Join the Resurrection Room Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61588999984832 Get on the email list for more identity, neuroscience, and nervous system insights: https://kelli-shaw.kit.com/32980db5e9 If this episode gave you language for something you've felt but couldn't explain, share it with the woman in your life who needs it — and leave a review to get The Resurrection Room to more beautiful souls, just like you.

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