Show Notes
Kat Obst was a stay at home mother in Dubai with no job, no income and no savings when her husband of 10 years left for another woman.
On her first ever podcast she tells Noona Nafousi the thing she has never said out loud: at the start of that marriage, she was the other woman.You get the full story of the double life, the therapist's ultimatum that brought him home for exactly 3 weeks, and the day he walked out for good.
Then the work: why betrayal is trauma and not heartbreak,where betrayal actually starts, why people leave for someone easier and never expect you to move on, the telltale signs before you find out, and the one question that tells you whether to stay. You leave with the betrayal reframed as a pattern, not a verdict on you.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction 03:31 Ten years, two boys, rock bottom 07:49 The confession: I was the other woman 10:48 The Instagram photo and the ultimatum 15:31 Happening to me, happening for me 37:37 Where betrayal actually starts 44:31 Someone easier, not someone better 59:48 Telltale signs and the one question 01:11:35 What limitless means to Kat
Connect with Kat Instagram : www.instagram.com/kat.obst/
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Noona Nafousi is a Master NLP Trainer, executive search veteran of two decades, and the creator of The Limitless Leader Codes. Through Neo Noor, she works with leaders and organisations across the world to unlock peak performance from the inside out.
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