Don't Tell Me To RELAX- Your Fertility Podcast

How To Cope With Pregnancy Loss and Baby Loss- with SANDS charity

Don't Tell Me To RELAX- Your Fertility Podcast

Show Notes

In this episode I am joined by Rowena Paling from SANDS to discuss the complex emotional landscape of pregnancy and baby loss, offering insights into grief, support strategies, and societal changes. This conversation is essential for anyone seeking understanding or support after pregnancy loss.

We discuss The emotional complexity of grief after pregnancy loss The importance of making memories to process grief How societal attitudes toward baby loss have evolved Practical ways to support someone grieving a pregnancy loss The role of support groups and counseling in healing Challenges faced by partners and couples after loss How to navigate triggers like anniversaries and social events The importance of language and sensitivity in conversations

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