PDA Society Podcast

Declarative language made easy Video

PDA Society Podcast

Show Notes

In this week's episode we're chatting to parent Steve Keightley about how declarative language can reduce demands for PDAers and the difference this has made for their family. If you're not sure how to recognise declarative language, Steve has created the Ask Gentle [https://ask-gentle.com/] app which can help you find a softer way to communicate around demands.

You can find out more, including our previous episode on Declarative Language with Linda K Murphy, through the PDA Training Hub.

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