Show Notes
In this episode, PDA Society CEO Ed speaks with Suzanne McManus, an editorial leader and creative professional, who joins the podcast to share her personal experience as the parent of a PDA child.
Suzanne reflects on the steep learning curve of parenting when traditional approaches don't fit, and how she had to unlearn familiar ideas about authority, control and compliance. She discusses the shift from managing behaviour to understanding anxiety and autonomy, and how connection, trust and humour have become the foundations of her parenting.
Through warmth and honesty, Suzanne offers reassurance to parents who may be feeling isolated or unsure, highlighting the importance of community and self-compassion along the way.
Key Themes
* Parenting a PDA child through understanding and flexibility * Letting go of traditional ideas about authority and control * Replacing behaviour management with empathy and curiosity * Building trust, humour and connection in family life * Finding reassurance and community as a PDA parent
Deep Diver Subscriber Episode
For those who would like to go further, Part 2, an exclusive "Deep Diver" subscriber episode, will be available through our Training Hub. You can access it here: https://training.pdasociety.org.uk/pda-podcasts/
Disclaimer
The views and opinions expressed by guest speakers in this podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the PDA Society. While we aim to provide balanced and inclusive discussions, individual experiences and perspectives may vary. The PDA Society is committed to using language and terminology that reflects the preferences of PDA and autistic people, but sometimes our guests may use language and terminology which differs. Appearance on our podcast is not an endorsement of an individual, and not all of our guests will align with our position on the issues discussed.
Further sources of support and information
* PDA Society Training Hub: https://training.pdasociety.org.uk/pda-podcasts/ * PDA Society Website: https://www.pdasociety.org.uk/ * PDA Society Training: https://www.pdasociety.org.uk/support-and-training/training/ * PDA Society Support Service: https://www.pdasociety.org.uk/support-and-training/support/
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